How you complete this year will have a big impact on how you start and live next year. Wise women with smarts know it's way too easy to get caught up in the collective holiday madness and frenzy that is pulling you to do too many things that lead to over spending, eating, scheduling, doing and working. Even if they are things you WANT to do... or feel like you SHOULD do.
The collective is speeding up and spending lots of energy, money and time outside while the natural world is slowing down and going within.
There is a different way ... that allows you to BOTH enjoy the joy, peace, connection of the holiday season AND replenish, restore and focus your life force on what matters most to you, so that come the new year, you will feel FULL of vitality and energy, balanced inside, having not overspent your energy or money, or overindulged in ways that make you feel like you have to workout every day for three months come January.
Wise woman employ some very specific 'feminine super powers' that:
Tune into this episode of Feminine Power Time with Christine Arylo - I will share some of the feminine wisdom that will keep you connected to what sustains and nourishes you this season, and set the seeds for what's to come in the new year.
And remember to Join me and people around the world on Dec 20th for the annual Year End Power Pause & Reflection Ritual to complete your year powerfully and peacefully. I've done it the last 10 years and it's made such a difference in creating more harmony, inner peace, clarity and focus.
RSVP for free - my gift to you.
Our feminine power comes from our ability to feel deeply in our hearts, for the world, for what we care about, for those we care about, and ourselves. But in a world with so much chaos and distortion, domination, etc… how do you BE with those feelings of anger, sadness, grief, even despair without letting them run you, depress you, or send you into a bout of rage or blame, or just complete overwhelm?
The last few weeks I’ve been riding the feeling waves from despair to anger, some days feeling like a wet blanket was on top of me, like I was shedding tears for the world… and other days in overwhelm and despair about the state of the world and humanity… wondering if anything will really change or can?
So many things that are just #notokaywithme.
And imagine that you too have many things as you look around the world, your life, relationships, that are just #notokaywithyou.
Collectively, if we can harness these feelings of things that are JUST #NOTOKAYWITHUS, we can work with the power of the fierce feminine to make change happen in this world… to use the feelings we have in our hearts to fuel our work, to fuel our practice, and to keep us focused on what matters.
I’ve been waiting to share this with you until I could re-steady myself, using the Feminine Power and Wisdom tools that do feel like super powers created for this time. Today, on my mat, it was time to invite you into this Feminine Power Time: “It’s Not Okay with Us: Channeling our Fierce Feminine Feelings to Fuel Our Work, Fuel Our Life-force and Change The World”
Join me, Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor, MBA and wisdom teacher, as we dive into:
Living and leading with our feminine power and wisdom is essential for navigating these times - but most of us are operating at half power and partial wisdom because we have not been taught how to wield our power or tap into our wisdom.
If you would love to learn how to access your feminine power and wisdom and use it practically in your work, life, health, wealth and impact in this world… Join me..
1. The Feminine Wisdom Year 2019
A year devoted to living, leading and succeeding from your feminine super power. Starts January 2019 with special year end reflection and visioning in December.
Learn more at www.FeminineWisdomYear.com
2. 2018 Reflection Power Pause and Ritual
Complete the year feeling powerful, proud and peaceful.
RSVP for free. Attend live via video or audio stream or get the recording.
3. Dream Partnership Retreat - for couples who would love to vision the next phase of their life together, so both people can thrive. Starts with year end refection ritual in December, visioning in Jan and retreat Feb 1-4.
This Feminine Power Time is a big boost of gratitude and love from my heart to yours... an invitation to take a pause to SEE and FEEL the impact you are making in this world. Because I know you ARE making a difference. Yes, there is more to do, the days you feel like you aren't doing enough, but the underlying truth is that you are making a BIG difference, but you likely aren't receiving the truth of what a difference you are making.
We are more powerful and less overwhelmed as women in our careers and relationships when we can see and feel the difference we are making.
Yet, few of us every truly slow down long enough to see the impact we are making in the lives of others, the world and in our own lives. As a result, we keep pushing, striving and driving, which leads to the overwhelm and burnout we feel.
Women often feel like we should be doing more because we aren't acknowledging or receiving the impact we are making.
I know there is alot you could be doing and you might think you don't have time to really receive what you've done. And I invite you to consider a different way of living, the feminine wisdom way, which knows wise women slow down to SEE and FEEL the impact and as a result regenerate and refuel their passion, love and commitment to creating a better world, without sacriificing themselves.
Join Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor, women's empowerment coach and MBA, for this episode of Feminine Power Time: THANK YOU for Making A Difference: Take a Pause to Receive the Impact You've Had, where we will:
Stay connected with Christine Arylo through her weekly Feminine Wisdom Letters and also get notices for upcoming events and programs- www.ChristineArylo.com
Join Christine for upcoming events
Year End Power Pause - Dec 20th - 5:30pm via Livestream
The Feminine Wisdom Way: Living, Leading and Succeeding Differently in 2019 -enrollment opens Nov 29th www.FeminineSuperPowerYear.com -
Dream Partnership Couples Retreat - For couples who desire to create the next part of their lives together. Includes year end reflection ritual, January visioning process and February retreat. Space for 6 couples max. www.DreamPartnershipRetreat.com
When you pause in November to get clear about how you COULD spend your energy, time and resources and then mindfully choose where to focus in your work, relationships, and personal health ... you are so much more likely to end the year feeling good about your choices, and so start the year ready and regenerated for what is to come.
This practice is called POWER PAUSING. Wise women do it 4-8 times a year at key points that harmonize us with the natural cycles.
Specifically we do it in November so we don't get caught up in the swirl of the holiday madness and consumption, but instead make space for what matters.
So many people fall into patterns during the holidays that drain and over stretch then - in how they spend their time, money, connection and what they consume.
The holidays turn us into human consumption machines when what we are craving is human connection.
In this Feminine Power Time power pause, Christine Arylo, women's leadership advisor:
Save the Date - Year End Power Pause with Christine Arylo, Dec 20th, 5:33 pm PT - My gift to you. RSVP soon! Make sure we are connected by signing up for my wisdom letters as www.ChristineArylo.com
If you'd like to learn to live, lead and succeed the Feminine Wisdom Way and gain the super power to get out of overwhelm, get what matters done, and be supported and sustained in your work, relationships and health and wealth, this 'feminine wisdom school' is the place.
Register to get the invitation. www.FeminineWisdomWay.com
Save the Date - Feminine Leadership Immersion. ELEVATE, Power, Presence and Purpose. April 25-28. Seattle Coast.
Why is it that we women hide and hold back? When our inner wisdom whispers, or screams, at us to step forward, be more visible, speak up, be a force for change, give our great work, be seen in new ways that can feel vulnerable... why can even the most courageous confident woman hold back, procrastinate, distract herself with busyness, and any other of a myriad of strategies we employ that keeps us smaller than we are and less seen that we need to be?
There are real reasons we distract and sabotage ourselves from stepping out and giving our sacred work in new ways, speaking our truth or wisdom or making an offering that feels vulnerable or risky.
I originally taped this episode last year at this same time of the year, and it's SO powerful and relevant, I felt like we needed to hear it again. I myself just listened to it and I am inspired.
Tune into this Feminine Power Time, Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor with a special guest, open up a provoking conversation to explore what keeps women from stepping forward to be more visible and seen, including:
For those of you who are called to hold space for others or gather others to create connection and transformation, the 2018 Art of Sacred Circle Creative Incubator and Circle Training starts this Month, November. Create and birth your next offering, program, circle, in sisterhood, with other wise women who dare to step forward to make shift happen. www.ArtofSacredCircle.com
For those desiring to go deeper into feminine wisdom and learn how to lead, live and succeed the feminine way, successful and sustainable, Feminine Super Power Year 2019 opens on Nov 17th. www.femininesuperpoweryear.com
For women leaders here to make shift happen ... the ELEVATE Feminine Leadership Immersion Retreat is April 25*28, 2019.
For private leadership mentoring and coaching, email Christine at Christine@Arylo.com
Courageous Women feel fear and have doubt too, the difference is they meet and move through the uncertainty to make choices that feel right for them…regardless of what is considered acceptable or feels comfortable.
Some call this crazy, I name it brave. If you look back through herstory you’ll see powerful women who dared to conjure up courage to step past their own fear and the projection of fear placed on them from others to follow their heart’s deep wisdom.
These trailblazers were often called “crazy” as a way to diminish and discount their feminine power and intuitive wisdom.… but in truth these women were the ones who lived freely and fully regardless of external circumstances or opinion.
They dared to stand in their true soul expression as Courageous Wise Women. Some wise women’s courage changes the masses. And for many of us, while our courage may only touch as far as our children, friends, peers, clients, communities and selves, the amount of courage it takes to stand up and lead and speak from your heart is just as immense, and brave.
Truthfully... feminine wisdom is not “crazy,” but it is crazy powerful.
And we need it more than ever to navigate these intense times, where we are each being called to step forward, make change, stretch ourselves out of what feels comfortable and in line with conventional wisdom to what feels empowering and aligned to a much deeper, human wisdom.
This Feminine Power Time: Crazy Wisdom: Conjuring Up Courage and Clarity in Intense Times is a "Salon" - originally broadcast as a live video stream and virtual circle by Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor and teacher. These salons are feminine wisdom sessions that go into deeper levels of teaching and wisdom based on what we are experiencing.
Usually streamed during one of the 'power days', Christine invites you to join her and other courageous souls around the world to:
To receive the video of this feminine wisdom session, go to
If you are a brave courageous soul here to do things differently in how you lead and live, then consider joining us for one of our upcoming trainings, programs and circles to support your work, your presence and what you desire to create in this world.
Art of Sacred Circle Training and Incubator - for people who gather and teach others or desire to and are called to create a new offering www.ArtofSacredCircle.com
Feminine Super Power Year - A Feminine Wisdom School for living, leading and succeeding the feminine way. www.FeminineSuperPowerYear.com
ELEVATE Feminine Leadership Immersion - Save the Date - April 25-28, Seattle Coast.
Most women operate at half power, trying to assimilate into ways of working that don't support how we naturally operate and create, undervaluing ourselves and our work, and taking more responsibility than is ours to take on. We care about the world. We want to make things better. But the way we've learned to lead and work is based on models that do not support nor tap into our 'feminine' power and wisdom.
But what the heck is the 'feminine' and why do we need it? Can't we just all try to be better people, grow our careers, and talk about leadership without needing to gender modify it? The answer is NO.
If we desire to create a world in which there is pay equity, gender equity, connection instead of isolation, where we grow ourselves, our families and our work/business in ways that sustain and nourish us vs like some crazy Monsanto accelerated growth model, we have to LEARN what the feminine is... REVEAL the full range of our power... and then VALUE and APPLY a different way to work, live and lead.
There's much to say about Feminine Leadership and we are not going to cover it all today - I don't want to add to your overwhelm love! I want to give you the path out of it, which feminine leadership and wisdom offer us.
After studying tradition leadership for over two decades and realizing it didn't have what I needed as a woman or as a human who didn't want to perpetuate a domination and consumption model for business and living, I sought out 'the feminine' (even though I had no idea what that was at the time. Over the last decade I've applied this Wisdom to my own life and work and shared it with many more.
Today, is the start of on ongoing conversation here at Feminine Power Time, the first of our deep dives into Feminine Leadership, a way of living, working and creating I've devoted my life to teaching and living.
For today's session "Feminine Leadership: What Does it Look Like to Lead As a Woman?" we will dive into 5 foundational realms of Feminine Leadership, so we can open up to some deeper wisdom, new insights and expanded possibilities that and support us in being the change we wish to see, including:
When we lead naturally as a whole woman we embody both our masculine and feminine powers in ways that naturally lead us to creating realities that create more harmony, sustainability and prosperity.
We will end this Feminine Power Time with a short meditation that leads you to connect with HOW big a difference you are making -so you can stop pressuring yourself and start acknowledging yourself. And will help you take the pressure of taking on more responsibility than is yours... feminine leadership leads us to just do our part.
We are just getting scratching the surface here on Feminine Leadership. To explore more check these out:
1. Free Feminine Wisdom Session: CRAZY WISDOM: Conjuring Up Courage and Clarity in Intense Times. RSVP for Free.
2. Art of Sacred Circle Training and Incubator 2018/19 - Starts Nov. For women desiring to birth new offerings, programs, events, workshops, gatherings and to expand the impact and presence of themselves and their sacred work. Only offered 1 time per year. Learn more at www.ArtofSacredCircle.com
Save the Date
1. Feminine Leadership Immersion Retreat - ELEVATE. Power. Presence. Purpose. April 25-28th, 2019. Islandwood Retreat Center. Island off the coast of Seattle. Early Bird Opens in Nov.
2. Feminine Super Power Year 2019 - A wisdom school for learning, living and succeeding the feminine way. Enrollment opens Nov 11. www.FeminineSuperPowerYear.com
Couples who dream together thrive together. People who are clear and centered in their own dream create partnerships that support them to soar. Sadly, most of us have never been taught how to create such relationships. We are kinda clueless about what 'dreaming' together really is, and how to create the kinds of relationship where both people's dreams can be met.
It's so easy to get bogged down by the day to day reality that our relationships can become all about getting through our lives, taking care of the money, kids, house vs. have a shared dream that inspires each person and holds the center for how you make your life choices.
Or if you are single, and are not clear on your personal dream or you don't have an imprint of what a true strong partnership looks like, you can end up choosing a mate who isn't capable of supporting you to create the life your heart and soul desires.
Over the past 17 years, I've had the honor of knowing (and living with, working with and being in sacred partnership) with one of the wisest people I know when it comes to relationships and how people work and don't work within them... my soul partner, Noah Martin, and man who has helped many women, men and couples get clear on their dreams, strengthen their connection, change their roles and open to more love.
So I've invited Noah to join us for this Feminine Power Time with me Christine Arylo, Dream Partnerships: Creating a Relationship Where Both People Thrive. I like to invite Noah to join us every so often to share a man's point of view and truthfully straight up good practical wisdom on relationships.
We can't talk about Feminine Power and Feminine Leadership if we also don't talk about relationship, because our relationships have a huge impact on our ability to have the impact we desire, do our sacred work and be supported along the way. Here's what we dive into...
Dreams are the fuel that allows you to live your life in connection and joy, even when stuff gets hard.
To learn more about the Dream Partnership Retreat with Christine and Noah, go to www.DreamPartnershipRetreat.com
To learn about the 4 Sacred Pillars of Partnership, go to https://events.christinearylo.com/sacred-partnership-livestream/
To learn more about Noah Martin, decision making and relationship advisor and coach, go to www.coachingbynoah.com
How do we "BE" with what we are seeing in the world all around us - the anger, the greed, the disrespect, the separation, etc. etc.- without becoming consumed by it, sucked into it or feeling like we have to spiritually bypass it? How do you speak up, stand up and show up to be the agent of change, truth, compassion that you desire to be, when everything feels so overwhelming, compressed and out of control?
The yogis predicted we would come to this time of madness. Our role is to be able to stay present with what is happening in this world, be agents for change and elevation, not forces who add to the chaos, frenzy and fear.
How do you stay present with what's happening in the world without being overcome by it? Whether it's happening in politics, in power plays on your job or in relationships, or in your community or within yourself, we need super powers and wisdom for staying present with what is, staying human in the process, but not becoming part of the very things we wish to change.
In this Feminine Power Time, with Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor, MBA and Wisdom Teacher, dive in for:
Chaos loves to speed things up. But we lose our power when we become part of the sand storm. We embody our power when we stand still in the midst of it, see what is real, see the fear game being played. We gain an elevated perspective that empowers us to act in ways that can create powerful change.
This is the time to start slowing down, not speeding up. We need to step out of our daily rhythyms to hear the deeper wisdom within.
Join Christine for her yearly Women's Wisdom Quest: Sacred Rebels. Sacred Work Nov 2-4th the best time for deepening your access to wisdom. www.FeminineWisdomRetreat.com
Wise women know how to use the natural cycles of the earth and universe to support them to grow their work, wealth and relationships, to support their health, and to keep them focused on what matters.
The September Equinox offers you insight to illuminate where the imbalances currently exist in your life & how to reset yourself and refocus your life force - especially the ways in which you are over giving and under receiving, the habits that may have worked in the summer but won't support you now, and the ways in which making changes to your home, health and wealth can support you to end your year strong, sane and supported.
In this Feminine Power Time with women's leadership and empowerment advisor and teacher, Christine Arylo, marries her MBA business background with 15+ years of wisdom and spiritual study in practical ways that can support you to elevate out of overhwelm, stay focused on what matters, shift sabotaging habits and take care of small things that make a big difference.
Tune into this Power Pause and:
Power Pauses are a form of feminine leadership which teaches us to work in harmony with the natural cycles of how the material and mystical world both work. Part of her Feminine Wisdom School, Arylo teaches how to use this ancient wisdom and way of working to apply to creating a life and work that creates an impact and is sustainable.
To receive invitations to Christine Arylo's fall feminine leadership mentorship - called Elevate - and her fall Wisdom Quest for Women desiring to gain clarity, focus and courage to take the next steps to bring their sacred work into form, subscribe to her Wisdom Letters at www.ChristineArylo.com
When you are 'tuned in' to your inner wisdom and your channel is clean and clear, wow can you step forward with courage, stay focused on what matters, and make wise choices for yourself, your work/business and in your relationships. But when your wisdom channels are blocked up or mucked up, wow can you make some bad choices, shrink back, spin out, work too hard and give too much and generally create havoc vs harmony for yourself.
But how do you know if your inner guidance system is tweaked out vs tuned in?
I just had to add this bonus Feminine Power Time to complete our series of Feminine Wisdom: What is it? Why is it essential? How do you use it? It will be the 5th in this Feminine Wisdom Series. Join me, Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor and wisdom teacher, for a conversation we have to have to make sure we are responding from our truth vs reacting from our fear.
If we aren't self aware of how we work inside and understand the signs we are operating from distorted emotions and ideas, we can't support ourselves or get the support we need to face the levels of change, stretch, possibility and uncertainty we face.
Join me and We'll dive into:
I invited a special guest to join us for this Feminine Power Time, Stacey Hoffer, the director of programs at The Path of Self Love School, whose "inner mean girls" = the force that disempowers and distorts your inner wisdom = are different than mine.
I'm bringing my Achievement Junkie, Move the Bar Belinda, and my Invincible Super Woman, who I haven't named yet! Stacey brought her Rejection Queen and her Overly Optimistic Cheerleader. You will Love their names!
If you'd like to join Stacey and me for this falls Empower Your Inner Wisdom, Expose Your Inner Mean Girl, personal transformation circle, learn more here www.EmpowerYourInnerWisdom.com
You have the power to change this world and change the systems that you work and live by how and who you show up as, and how you choose to design your life, lead your team, family, business, organization... You have the power to change the things in your life that cause unhealthy and unnecessary pressure. You don't have to accept that 'this is just how things are."
You just need to know how to access and activate the power within you that stems from the depths of your internal feminine wisdom.
Which is why in this Feminine Power Time, the #4 in our Feminine Wisdom Series, we are diving deep into the feminine wisdom super power of "Harmonic Defiance: The Power to Make Shift Happen, the Feminine Way."
Harmonic Defiance is:
The power to make shift happen by choosing to design your life and lead your work, team, family, organization, business, in ways that cultivate harmony, to speak up and question that which does not support sustainability and humanity. And then with that feminine power activated, you dare to do things differently.
You are going to love learning about this and applying it directly to your life right now.
Tune in with me, Christine Arylo, women's leadership advisor, as we explore:
To join Christine in person at her Feminine Wisdom Weekend this fall, go to www.FeminineWisdomRetreat.com
To learn more about the 3-month personal transformation program, Reform Your Inner Mean Girl, Empower Your Inner Wisdom - it's like rehab for your inner critic and super hero training for your inner wisdom go to www.PathofSelfLove.org
We live in a time when you just can't plan out your life 3, 5, 10 years in advance and then follow 'the plan' - although our minds and desires for safety would love that. We live in a time when the world is changing fast, and we are each being 'called up' to new sacred assignments, ways of living and working that our soul signed up for.
These 'soul stretches' and catalysts are calling for us each to step out of comfort zones and step into into a zone where we often can't see how it will work out, how it can work out and if it will work out.
This is where the Feminine Wisdom teaching - the feminine super power of Stepping in the Unknown comes in. It's a different way of operating that most of us were not taught, but it is a REAL thing. In this Feminine Power Time, Stepping in the Unknown with Courage and Clarity to Chart the Path Ahead: Planning the Feminine Wisdom Way, the 3rd in our series on Feminine Wisdom, I'll share the wisdom teaching on Stepping in the Unknown. And make it personal for you so you can work with it and can step through the changes coming with grace and courage, feeling and being supported, including:
If you missed the previous Feminine Wisdom Series episodes, #68 on Intuitive Attunement & #67 on Synchronicity with guest Nilima Bhat from Shakti Leadership, tune in!
To join me this fall at the Discover Your Feminine Wisdom weekend workshop in San Francisco go to www.FeminineWisdomRetreat.com
To learn more about working with the two inner forces within women and girls - the inner wisdom and the inner mean girl -- through the Path of Self Love Training and Certificate program or the 3-month personal Reform Your Inner Mean Girl. Empower Your Inner Wisdom transformational program go to www.PathofSelfLove.org
Intuitive Attunement is my second favorite super power feminine wisdom word of the year. And I think you are going to LOVE it too! When you have it, and know how to cultivate it, you have the inner power to make the best choices for yourself, in your career, relationships, wealth, health, home. Without it, you are often being led by the cultural craziness and your own subconscious emotional commotion.
Intuitive Attunement - you being 'attuned' from the inside out to Divine Wisdom and therefore your own soul wisdom - gives you access to a deep well of wisdom that's connected to your heart and soul - so you can stay true to yourself, and take leaps of faith that backed by sound wisdom.
It surpasses the mind, which can only create what it has experienced before or seen in others, to access insight, guidance and possibility.
But most of us were not taught how to develop nor strengthen our power of Intuitive Attunement, so we operate at half our power, make choices that are jaded by past experiences and often drive by fear, lack or scarcity.
Which is why I've created this Feminine Wisdom Series, focused on a few of the aspects of Feminine Wisdom that we need as leaders and women now. Join me, Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor for this Feminine Power Time episode "Intuitive Attunement: Super Power Your Connection to Divine Wisdom" (#2 in the series) where we dive into:
** And of course, we make this personal with a double dog feminine wisdom dare to attune to your inner wisdom and take a leap this week in an area of your life calling for change or expansion.**
Tune in. Take the dare. And start to strengthen your Intuitive Attunement.
To attend the free Path of Self Love Class on Transforming the Inner Critic and Empowering the Inner Wisdom go to www.SelfloveClass.com
To learn more and register for the fall Feminine Wisdom Weekend in San Francisco, go to www.FeminineWisdomRetreat.com
** If you missed the first in the series on Feminine Wisdom "SYNCHRONICITY: The power of working with the flow" make sure to listen to the previous episode, #67 with special guest, Nilima Bhat, author of Shakti Leadership.
Of course we all want to live in the flow. Have things - invitations, opportunities, people, resources - 'come to us' vs having to go out and kill the proverbial meat or attack our lives and work like pushing a boulder up a hill. If given the choice between having to hustle, network like crazy, and make stuff happen OR having the experience where I'm guided to where to focus, when to act, where things come to me, I'm choosing the latter. Less stress, more spacious. Less pressure, more peace.
But how do you create synchronicity? How do you get into the flow, and most important, how do you stay there? So what you NEED comes to you vs. you exhausting yourself physically to make it happen or mentally to figure out how to plan and strategize to happen?
This is the realm of Feminine Wisdom.
The feminine super powered way of living, leading and succeeding, that most of us were not taught in our traditional education or on the job training.
Which is why it's the focus for this week's Feminine Power Time: "Synchronicity & Shakti Leadership: Working with Feminine Power so Things Happen for You Vs. Pushing and Planning" It's the 1st in a 3 part series (maybe 4, we'll see) on FEMININE WISDOM - what is it, how do you find it and how do you work with it?
I invited a new soul sister to our session today, Nilima Bhat, author of Shakti Leadership, a woman I've been aware of for about 2 years, have wanted to meet, but instead of making it happen, the Great Mama orchestrated a meeting for us over Spring Equinox "unplanned" (more on that in the show, you;ll love this Synchroncity Story!)
I invite you join Nilima and I for this feminine wisdom session, where together we will all explore:
To learn more about Feminine Power Time and Christine Arylo, and receive past episodes and receive Christine's weekly Wisdom Letters, go to www.FemininePowerPodcast.com
To learn more about Nilima Bhat and Shakti Leadership, including the book and fellowship, go to www.ShaktiLeadership.com
To learn more about the Path of Self Love Teacher Training and School, go to www.PathofSelfLove.org
What you focus on grows. So if you desire more connection, love, support, community, and sisterhood tune in! You can’t just leave your relationships – be it intimate partners and family, sisterhood or community – up to chance. Self-empowered people choose to intentionally cultivate and harvest the relationships they desire, in their work and personal life.
in #3 of our Feminine Power Time series on Self Love & Relationships, “Harvest More of What You Desire in Your Relationships by Years End!” Christine Arylo, feminine leadership and wisdom advisor, invites you to join her for an exploration focused on:
If you don’t pause to ask your heart who you desire to be in relationship with and how you desire your current and new relationships to feel, you are missing the power and potential.
Feminine wisdom teaches us:
Be clear about what you desire to harvest and then focus your energy, time and resources there.
This will yield the most impactful results.
(you'll create the love, connection, support, community you desire)
**To the inquiries that Christine Arylo talks about in this Feminine Power Time, go to www.ChristineARylo.com/podcast
**To stay connected with Christine, subscribe to her weekly Wisdom Letters at ChristineArylo.com AND receive the free Feminine Super Power Kit for elevating out of Overwhelm.
When we lose a relationship with a person we once loved and cared for - be it a friend, a beloved, a relative - it hurts. From death to divorces, breakups with romantic partners or friends, our hearts suffer, they 'break open' because of this loss. And we stand at a choice point: will we use this change as a catalyst to open our hearts to more love and to become even stronger and more fully expressed and empowered beings... or we will we close off, contract, protect or stuff down the feelings and so have to keep receiving the spiritual curriculum again and again?
In the 2nd of our 3 part series on Relationship and Self Love, join me Christine Arylo for this Feminine Power Time: "Transforming Relationship Heartbreak into Personal Catalysts" I've invited a special guest, Kristine Carlson, NY Times Best Selling Author of the new book, From Heartbreak to Wholeness.
A dear friend who is also a true wisdom teacher and woman who has lived what she shares, Kris and I invite you for this intimate conversation and a deep dive into how in the midst of relationship heartbreak and change, you can:
To get a copy of Kris' new book: From Heartbreak to Wholeness: The Hero's Journey to Joy - you can get it on Amazon.com here.
To download the Soul Mantra meditations from Kristine Carlson go to www.FromHeartbreaktoWholeness.com
To go deeper on your self love and relationship journey, learn more about the Choosing ME Before WE 40-day practice at www.ChoosingMEBeforeWe.com
I have met so many smart women, and have been one myself, who can show up strong and capable in their work, and for their friends and family, and even appear to be happy and physically healthy, but when it comes to their relationships, the make unhealthy, sabotaging sometimes even toxic choices for themselves.
The short answer - at the root of all relationship settling, self sacrifice and self sabotage is a lack of self love.
I know this because I've lived it, watched too many friends go through it and watch their children make the same mistakes. We get trained in math and reading, but not in love and relationship, which has so much more of an impact on how our lives turn out, yes?
I wrote my first book Choosing ME Before WE, left my corporate job and founded the Path of Self Love School because this wisdom it not being taught or lived and too many women, girls, men and boys suffer because of it.
Nothing will derail the success and wellness, and our capacity to be leaders than unhealthy, toxic relationships.
Whether you are currently struggling in your relationships (or lack of) or someone you love is or you have children or young people you influence, join me...
Christine Arylo, for this Feminine Power Time:
Why Smart Women Choose Bad Relationships: Stop Settling, Sacrificing and Sabotaging Yourself for Love.
It's part 1 in a 3 part series I'm calling A Summer of Love :)
Here's what we will dive into:
There is so much to share!
If you'd like to dive in deeper:
1. Join me for the annual Choosing ME Before WE summer of self love practice - start anytime in July - www.ChoosingMEbeforeWe.com
2. Check out the Choosing ME Before WE Book - www.theselflovebooks.com
If you would like to teach self love or guide others in self love, consider joining our Self Love Guide training which starts in September www.SelfLoveGuides.com
The yogis say when our intuition is strong and clear we can know our truth and the best path to take within 9 seconds. But when your subconscious is cluttered or clogged due to stress, fear, too much going on, other people's stuff your intuitive guidance system gets tweaked, cloudy and confused. So you make choices that are not in your best interest.
But how do you know if your channels of intuition are clear or cloudy? And how do you clear your intuition channels so you can make choices that are aligned to your highest consciousness and good?
I am just back from an 8 day yoga teacher training in the New Mexico desert, and I brought you back some souveniers... to support you in clearing out the blocks and clutter in your field so the choices you make this next part of the year are guided by Wisdom, keeping you true to your path and yourself. Intuition super food!
Join me, Christine Arylo, for this Feminine Power Time - "Are Your Channels Clear? Ensuring Your Higher Consciousness is Directing Your Life" where we:
Join me for a feminine wisdom weekend to learn practices and rituals for strengthening and clearing your intuitive channels and accessing the deeper levels of wisdom within to guide your work, relationships, health, wealth and life choices.
East Coast US - Kripalu - July 27-29 www.FeminineWisdomRetreat.com
West Coast US - CIIS - California Institute for Integral Studies - Oct 21-22 - click here
For the virtual FLOW Focus your Lifeforce on What matters Power Pause - to go www.femininepowerritual.com
To Join Christine and a circle of women around the world daring to live and lead the feminine way - learn about Feminine Super Power Year here, 6-month session starts July 12th. www.FeminineSuperPowerYear.com
Most of us feel like we dont have the time we need to do what we really want, get what we need or do the things that might not be productive or profitable but are actually the things that feed us the most and that have the potential to catalyze us into the expressions, intentions and dreams we have for ourselves, our work and the world.
Wisdom Byte: If you are waiting to find the time, you will never find the time. Time is finite. You can't make time - there is no time kitchen. And you can't find more time - time is not lost.
What we need is not more time. What we need is the 'space' to take care of the demands of our current lives AND feed the desires still coming into form AND nourish our hearts and souls and bodies with things that may not be 'productive' or 'profitable' but that sustain us in big ways.
You are invited to join Christine Arylo for this Feminine Power Time - a POWER PAUSE, taped at the mid-year point, to invoke
To join Christine for the full FLOW Mid Year Power Pause
From Your Own Home - go here.
At the Kripalu Retreat Center - go here.
I'm sharing this with you as we approach the mid year point because it's so crazy relevant to the wisdom we need to pace ourselves and stay focused on what matters this next part of the year. I broadcast it last year at this same time, listened to it myself today and was inspired by what I said - lol :) Seriously, timeless wisdom for this time now. Tune in... xoxo
About this Feminine Power Time with Christine Arylo: We lead crazy paced lives in part because we have made the unconscious choice to allow the rhythm of our life to be dictated by the pace the patriarchy and over culture has set - keeping us frenzied, fragmented and not focused on what truly matters. And there is another choice...
Feminine wisdom shows us how to be in the world without being of the world, by taking the powerful act to consciously set the patterns and rhythms of days, weeks, months and years in a way that creates harmony, not havoc.
It is the 3rd in the Breaking Through the Myth of Balance Series, as we illuminate a different way to live - so we can focus on what matters, be the most powerful presences of change, without exhausting ourselves and our resources including:
Join me for the mid year power pause and virtual retreat FLOW - www.superpowerpause.com
Join me for the East Coast power pause and Feminine Wisdom Weekend at Kripalu - details here.
For information on personal retreats with Christine, email Sarah Mardell at Sarah@Arylo.com
Each of our hearts has a spectrum of emotion that ranges from SAD to MAD that is our super power, if we know how to yield it and be with in correctly. But most people have not gotten training on how to use these energies in ways that fuel the change we desire vs. destroy the very thing we care so deeply about.
There are days when my heart can feel so heavy with sadness at the state of this world and what humans do to each other. If I don't allow myself to feel this and then move through it, it can drag me down like a grief pool of stagnant water. There are other days when my heart ignites like a fire storm, angry and mad sparking frustration and sometimes when it gets too big, it distorts into righteousness.
So when you are SAD or MAD at the state of the world, or things happening in it, or what specific people are doing ... how do you use those emotions powerfully in ways that elevate the situation and honor your feelings vs. expressing those feelings in distorted ways (or not at all) harming yourself and others?
What do we do with this anger and grief? And how do we use it?
Join me This Feminine Power Time with Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor and wisdom teacher, where we are going to dive deep into:
Christine Arylo mentioned some resources which you can get links to on her Feminine Wisdom Blog at www.ChristineArylo.com/blog
To join Christine for her Summer Programs go to www.ChristineArylo.com - including a 40-Day Self Love and Relationship program, the Feminine Wisdom Weekend Retreat at Kripalu July 27-29 and the FLOW Virtual Power Pause in June.
New beginnings are such a gift - from a new baby, to a new relationship or friendship, a new job, new home, new project or new phase of life. But most of us miss the gift because instead of savoring the process, creating the space needed to allow things to unfold and emerge... we rush in, put pressure on ourselves to hit the ground running and don't take the space needed. And the foundation of the new thing is not strong enough to endure.
Instead of savoring the experience we stress out during it.
In relationship, we rush in to intimacy too fast and give our bodies and hearts away before the relationship foundation is strong enough. We so desire to be safe, loved and to know it 'will work out' we miss the dance of growing intimacy.
In jobs, we start new ones right away instead of giving ourselves the space between to decompress and regenerate. So we leave one job exhausted and start the next one depleted, because the system 'needs us"
In giving birth, we go back to work weeks or a few months later, because we live in a system that doesn't honor human life force, the mother or the need to be nurtured.
In new projects, new homes, and any new beginning, we don't give ourselves the space to settle in and let things unfold and emerge, to savor the experience. We stress the whole way through to get it done, missing the beauty.
In finishing school or finishing a project we complete one milestone and think we are supposed to have it all figured out to start the next thing now.
This is systemic. Inside the systems and inside of ourselves. Causing huge amounts of stress, and pressure by truncating the space needed for endings and beginnings ... such precious sacred time.
Join Christine Arylo for this Feminine Power Time, "New Beginnings: How to Honor Yourself vs Push Your Way Through Them"
For more on Christine's programs and retreats go to www.ChristineArylo.com
One of the great gifts I receive is talking to lots of wise, conscious women and men around the world. And through those conversations I start to see patterns emerge - for what people are experiencing during these intense and changing times. When you see the patterns happening OUT there, you start to understand whats happening INSIDE you so much more.
And instead of feeling like you are alone or crazy you start to see that you are right on track. You elevate out of the swirl or the emotion of it. And you gain wisdom about what is REALLY happening through you, not to you.
Every so often I feel inspired to do these episodes of Feminine Power Time to share with you what I see happening 'out there' so you can use that wisdom to apply to what is happening in your life, now.
Join me Christine Arylo, for this feminine power podcast, where we will explore:
Other Feminine Power Time Episodes to tune into to deepen in some of this include "The Lie About Time" "Are You Supported" "Courageous Feminine Leadership"
To join me for the mid year Power Pause retreat - a Feminine Wisdom Weekend, July 27-29th at Kripalu, learn more here.
Courage - where does it come from? How do you cultivate it so that you have the inner strength and clarity to meet the challenges and catalysts in your life? So you can expand vs contract? So you make grounded choices that are also guided by divine grace?
Courage in the feminine is not false bravado, it's not without fear, and it does not come from the mind. Courage comes from the heart, it requires us to feel, and it also requires us to step forth out of our comfort zones.
When we cultivate it consciously as part of our daily practices, we gain the 'super power' to say NO to what limits us, say YES to what supports and expands us, even if it scares us and is different than what everyone else is doing or what conventional wisdom says.
Tune into this Feminine Power Time - Courageous Leadership - with Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor and wisdom teacher, for a soul provoking, heart invoking, and practical revealing and teaching on Courage through the feminine lense, including:
If you are going through a transition, standing at a threshold, being called forth to change, expand and open ... tune into this Feminine Power Time. And stay til the end when Christine shares a special passage from mystic John O'Donohue, Thresholds.
To join the April 40 Day Practice Burnout to Balance for creating resilience and a supportive pace to your life - go to www.40daypractice.com